Express Yourself!

At times, we want to discuss a problem or highlight a situation that puts us at a gross disadvantage. Although we don't realize that our issue may be viewed as a concern or complaint, we soon find out from peers that if we don't like something we should just let it go.  Over the course of my life, I have found that this simple suggestion is an easy way out for many people.  Not only does it devalue the issue, it serves as a tool to devalue the person and calm the fears of those who don't want to confront problems.  There are many that will say "Don't make waves...," Be thankful for what you have..., It could be worse..."  While these sayings are appropriate at times, they are often ways to encourage people to settle for less than they desire.  A person will not always get what they seek, but making changes or fighting for a cause do not come without sacrifices.  From the small to the great, history has taught us that if you want anything, you must take action.  Waiting for a bread crumb to fall from the sky is foolish unless you have put in the spiritual and physical effort to make it happen.  The next time you feel that you have a concern, follow a few steps if you need validation:

1.  Verbally state your problem to YOURSELF

2.  Compare the concern to the previous situation or the future situation

3.  Think about the reasons why or why not your concerns are reasonable (basic rights, social             norms, etc.)

3.  Decide if your emotions are an appropriate reaction to the situation

4.  EXPRESS YOURSELF (through the appropriate platform)

Show me the Money!

I have had a substantial increase in career related questions and that biggest question is "Will I be ok financially?"  For many people the sad truth is that you will not be as comfortable as you used to be.  You may have to give up your 5 bedroom home and downgrade to an apartment.  You may have to turn off the cable and cell phones.  You may even have to stop dining eat.  However there is a silver lining to this dark cloud.  The recent down turn in the economy is showing many of us how to live on less and enjoy the simple pleasures of life more.  Recently my family and I visited a local farm instead of renting a cabin in the mountains.  We enjoyed being able to have a good time on less than $20.  I have also learned how to cook more food with less ingredients [:)]  However for those of you who miss the "good life," do not fret.  By the end of 2010, the economy will change for the better and you will be a ble to breathe a little easier about stopping at Starbucks every morning.

 

Global Financial Prediction

Although many of us are going through economic difficulties, I would like for each and everyone of you to stay encouraged. The media is flaming the fire of fear and many of you have expressed your concerns about the future. I truly believe that this will pass over within the next 8 months and that your confidence in in the fiscal area of your life will be restored. Remember something when you start to feel a little tinge of concern. What is different about your situation than it was 2 months ago. Yes you may have lost a bit of money in the stock market, and you may have some bills that need to be paid. However is your life dramatically different than it was a few weeks ago? The answer is probably no, but you have allowed fear to claim your thoughts and enter your spirit. If you find that you are feeling discouraged call a friend, meditate, pray or do anything positive that will help you overcome negative thoughts and behavior. As always, be blessed!

Being Positive in Times of Tribulation

We often wonder why things in our life go wrong for no apparent reason. We search our hearts for anything that has caused unrest or disharmony and contemplate the source of our problems. Did I mistreat someone, am I working wholeheartedly, have I failed to recognize the grace of a Higher Power? If you are going through a trial in your life, be encouraged and realize that this may be a way to develop your spiritual life. Being blessed is not a matter of how good you have been, but the result of grace and lessons that teach you to endure and build character. At the moment you feel discouraged say to yourself "I will NOT be overcome by fear and disappointment, for this storm shall pass. I have victory in knowing that I WILL BE stronger, wiser, and closer to the Source of my help. Although trouble may be knocking at my door, I will not answer for it shall not come in. Where there is doubt, I shall say trust. Where there is frustration, I shall say peace. Where there is weariness, I shall say endure. Because I know that despite my circumstances, I am covered in Love and Mercy." Be encouraged everyone

Following the Advice of your Psychic Reader

Many people choose bits and pieces of their psychic's advice. In some cases this is a wise decision, but most advisors carefully guide their clients towards a proper path. I have found myself speaking in readings that begin with "You said He would...." and me ending it with "Did you..." Your path is determined by choices. If a reader says you are currently on the path to losing weight, the path is determined by you continuing your present behavior. However if you begin to consume 4000 calories a day because your advisor told you that the weight would dwindle away, you are creating a new path that is a direct result of your own actions. Patience is truly a virtue that requires one to trust themselves completely. If you cannot do this, you will undo your own plans and fall into a tangled web. The next time you speak with your spiritual guide, take the time to consider what they have told you and make a decision about the direction that you will take.